Hello and welcome mate! This is a lovely friendly place to hang out and make friends
I can definitely relate to a lot of your situation, with anxiety and stress disorders; I have PTSS (post-traumatic stress disorder) and know nothing at all about iphones and similar technology! We have 40 acres out 'woop-woop', milk our goats, have all sorts of furry, feathered and finnie house-mates, and love just having a few friends who are as left-field as we are.
You will find we are a real mix of folk on here, and you will fit right in if you love finnie-people, especially bettas
smiles,
Deb